If the Church doesn't believe in divorce,
how can some people can get an annulment and get married
again?
[Pre-note: If you are considering an annulment yourself, you
may be dealing with feelings of shame, disillusionment or
embarrassment because of a marriage that has ended in
divorce. Try to put aside these feelings and confidently
approach your priest or parish staff person who will help
you begin a process of healing and new beginnings. Your
conversation with your parish representative is a private,
pastoral and personal affair. The following is a description
of how the process works.]
The procedure through which a union is dissolved by the
church's marriage tribunal is called a declaration of
nullity. This process is reserved for those marriages that,
despite all outward appearances, were never valid from their
inception. This process is generally but not always reserved
for Catholics who wish to remarry again in the Church after
a civil divorce.
Three quick answers to common questions: 1) The Church does
not acknowledge the right of civil authorities to dispense
from ecclesial vows a couple had professed in church with
witnesses. 2) Children born of an annulled marriage are
legitimate. 3) Divorce does not prevent a Catholic from
receiving communion or participating fully in the life of
the Church.
An annulment decree by the Church means that through the
process of examination, impediments which existed at the
time of marriage rendered it invalid from the beginning.
Impediments to marriage include (among others): immaturity,
pressure to marry, pre-nuptial agreement, unknown chemical
dependency, or a significant psychological or sexual issue.
Annulments are not just for the rich. There is generally a
fee (@ $500.00) to process the paper work. In some dioceses,
this may be waived or reduced by the local parish. Most
people find the annulment process, albeit daunting at the
outset, an important-- even therapeutic-- closure to a
marriage that was never holy matrimony, (never valid).
People find it important to finally have the peace that
comes from knowing that they are now unbound and free to
marry within the Church if they ever wish to do so.
For a more comprehensive series of articles on this topic,
please refer to the following:
http://www.familyministries.org/annulment_support.htm
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